I sat thinking about what to write, trying to muster the genes of my brain as I really had no intention to write. But then, a random question stroke to my mind: " What if it was my last day in this cherish world? "
" What did I do in this life until this very moment that's worth mentioning? "
If I died, now .. exactly .. in the moment
Would my presence from my absence make a big difference?
Would it leave a gap in life?
Or did I live this life & I'll leave it as if I never even came to it?!
Have you ever tried asking yourself those questions? What was the answer then?
Indeed, that was the reality, - not of me - but of many others like me.
And here comes the question " Do I live for me, or live for others? "
" And what does the ME part include? My dreams & desires only? What if I achieved them but died, well .. Would they last? " --> They won't last either in real life or after being a ghost.
From this point, I decided to live a day as if it was the last & see whether it's a big deal or not.
But how can I start? Those are some tips I reached & you, dear Reader can add to them :
- Drawing a smile on someone's face
This is a very small thing yet of a great impact.
Smile is like the drug that activates & strengthens the immunity system. But not the immunity system against physical diseases. Nope, I mean the one against the EMOTIONAL ones. :)
Have you ever tried keeping a smile all a day along?
How does it feel? Great, huh? Have you contemplated it?
So why don't you try applying it on someone else..
You know, sometimes we might meet strangers who know nothing about our lives & we know nothing about theirs, but once you pass a smile it makes their day & makes yours as well.
Others we know for a life-time not knowing how to express our love to them either in sweet words or appreciable actions. We don't know how to confess that WE SIMPLY ADORE THEM ! <33
But the answer is so obvious: What ever you do will always pour in one outlet which is their HAPPINESS!
Drawing a smile on someone's face is a very low-prices job yet can cause priceless moments!
Try pouring the fragrant of the smile so that you can make vulnerable flowers thrive (:
The thing that turns them from fury to joy. That's it (:
- Sharing Love:
Have you ever wondered how many people truly love you?
How many people would stand praying over you while you're settled in your tomb?
Try to share love, with whoever you know, don't be afraid of love. You might be afraid & someone else is, as well.
You're not the one-man kind in your world & despite considering yourself strong enough to stand alone you'll always end up needing people..
People around you are the ones who create the moments & capture them. And what lasts in the end is the Moments not the days. They create transcendence, joy, pleasure,laughter even sorrow that gives life its bitter-sweet taste :)
Many other precious meanings that whatever you reached or achieved won't be in the same balance.
You know? In my point of view, those are the seconds that count, those are the moments to be mentioned in the book of your life, not the achievements and certificates :)
gamda gedn , rao3a
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